Sunday, May 25, 2008

In love......?????!?!?!

If you know that you've been in love, if you have been in love, if you think you know how it feels to be in love..

TELL ME.....

How exactly do you feel (the emotion and also about the other person) when you are in love?

Would you agree that there's a fine line between infatuation and attraction and 'likeness'!

17 comments:

Kavitha Jay said...
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Kavitha Jay said...

you dont know ur in love untill you miss that someone..i am pretty sure everyone has experienced this kind of feeling atleast once in their life time.
the funny thing is you really dont know which feeling is called love.

Absconding said...

I don't think that I've ever been in love! I have missed people..friends..yeah..that never equated to being in love though!!

Yeah..I'm trying to find out if there's this common feeling/emotion that's associated with love.....to make things easy on my side! :D

Kavitha Jay said...

u contradict urself merin..u said u have never been in love..but u also said that missing someone didnt equate being in love :D

well each person is different..n its very hard to explain
that feeling but u cant miss it..u would know for sure :)

Raz said...

yeah gal - missing someone is not love .

whats love.. before answering it, i wil answer what is infatuation , whats likeness and whats attraction.

ok all the 3 are quite similar , its jus that infatuation will get over soon and it might lose its glamour , so is the attraction which is the first stage of infatuation.
while likeness - will remain always :)

and now love - the only thing i know is... when u r in love.. u cant see someone else the same way u see him.

Absconding said...

I donno if I contradicted myself!
@ Kavi

Yes, I have never been in love (or at least I don't think that I am/have). I don't know how it feels to be in love..so I cant equate the feelings that I have to that. Apparently, different people feel 'differently' when they're in love. But I'm thinking that there must be a common SOMETHING in all!!

Yes..I've missed people..but that was not because I was in love with them. They're my friends..and I love them..and I do miss them when they are not here! :D

The Maverick Blog said...

Love(wrt the this post's context) is just the hyperbole of infatuation and likeness together... Its is NOT AT ALL generic... It differs from person to person.... There is no confirmatory test for it.... its just a matter of Time and an art of decision making....

The only common thing could be that it MUST be reciprocative for a successful relationship... Finally it is not about Chemistry, its about character....

did I succeed in answering your question ?:D

Kavitha Jay said...

missing ur friends is very different from missing someone you love.

@raz-machi..infactuation can turn into love too..u never know :P

Preeti said...

Uhm, uhm, uhm...love...hmmm...i realllllyyy dno myself but im guessing it's a very relative term...what qualifies as love for me isnt love for someone else...n the distinction between infatuation n love n all that is extremely thin, n it's veryyyy easy to digress n cross over :) iv felt i was in 'love' like, 5 times...everytime it was THE thing...but wasn't to be :)

Absconding said...

@ raz

Quite a few that I've inquired about this agree with you! :D

@ sunil

:D You did great. :D Hearing different versions about 'love' is absolutely amazing because it manifests quite differently in different people. Interesting. :D

@ kavitha

May be. :D

@ preeti

I've always had this deep meaning associated with love. As I'm hearing certain versions of love, I wonder if what they describe is actually love. Well..I'm actually doubting if what I claim to be 'love' is actually love! blah!

N.V.Prashanth said...

When some one feels like blogging to know whether they are in love or not... then they are deemed to be in love..

Hence the proof! :P

Absconding said...

@ prashanth

And where exactly did I indicate that I am trying to figure out if I'm in love? :D

N.V.Prashanth said...

And where exactly did I say that YOU indicated it?

Preeti said...

Yea, i agree...im like really sleptical when ppl tell me they r in love, or when i tell myself the same, cuz iv seen that go away in a while real soon :D nothing is certain...ul just know when u know i guess ;)

Absconding said...

@ prashanth

:D I've got nothing, dude!

@ preeti

Kind of sad that the supposedly strongest feeling in the world.. is yet to be figured out!

»»Dipu»» said...

There is difference between walking the path and knowing the path. The truth here is even people who have walked the path can't tell you enough for you to know the path. That is the bittersweet symphony you have to listen with someone special.

D.G. (You know me don't you?????)

Absconding said...

@ 'D.G'

Sounds good. :D 'You wouldn't know until you have experienced it'! Fair enough.

I don't know...DO I know you? May be I do...! :D YES I DO!