Monday, June 2, 2008

It's for the best....

I call and call. I leave voice messages (telling you that I'm sorry - I don't even know if a sorry was necessary). I call and call. I leave voice messages (telling you to call back).

You don't call back.

I think I'm past the 'anger phase'. I think that I'm past the 'bitter phase'.

Do I want to call again? Or should I just convince myself that it really isn't worth it and that I should move on?

I don't want to be desperate.

You know what love is? Love is sacrifice. Love is letting go of someone because you know that it's best for him (or her)!!!

I don't have time to worry about this. I'm glad that I recuperate quick!!!

9 comments:

m said...

Having a fast pace summer, haaah? Relationships could not be held in place by force.....so as u have put it better let it go.....may be it will help!

Absconding said...

:D Having a summer with nothing better to do. So my mind has been idle (thus a devil's workshop). It's ok..I'm starting school again on the 9th!! YAY!! No more of this! But then again...I can't help but wonder!! It's ok!! :D I'll survive!!

N.V.Prashanth said...

I used to worry abt these. But then that's them and to keep trying is me! I know they are not intentional in avoiding the calls. May be they were doing some thing more important. And yeah, I do feel bad when the calls are not returned.

Absconding said...

It's kind of difficult to get over it, you know? Oh..I'm sure that I'm almost over it. :D We're talking about a person who'd call back after the first or second or third call from me! Hahaha..it's ok!! I am not a dog..to chase after anyone!!

Kavitha Jay said...

No one is worth your tears and if you find one that is, they will not make you cry.

It is the for the best merin..i am glad that u can recuperate fast..i have seen lot of ppl clinging on to things that have been lost years ago...life is short..if u think its not worth it..then forget it..i know it will be hard..but our mind is capable of doing anything :)

Absconding said...

Friendship is a dirty thing..isn't it, Kavitha? :D

Kavitha Jay said...

If u are talking about friendship..then u call or not..if they return ur call or not..how long they take to return ur call..nothing matters..
they r still ur friend..thats how i look at it..
actually its my friends who go through the same with me..

Absconding said...

Oh yeah! It's a friend!!! Hey..I called more than three times... can't believe he didn't call back! :D I'll just wait for him to call me back...................!!! (really doubt it though.. cuz he never calls me..)! :D What's with guys and phone???? They've got all he time in the world to do all kind of nonsense and can't take out half an hr day for their friends!! :D

rantravereflect/ jane said...

after a point, yehhh one loses patience!!
n yehhhhh, it's for teh best..
living life emotionally could leave ya shattered, myte as well be pragmatic n practical..

n yeh, bitterness, anger, self-pity, anxiety- yehhh, all that is good, but when not reciprocated, indifference is teh best feelin :)