Sunday, June 29, 2008

Someone royally screwed me over 2 yrs ago. The person refused to even talk about the problem. Kind of abandoned me to rot!!! Ignored me!! Never contacted me since!!

Two years later, YOU WANT TO KNOW HOW THE F*** I'M DOING? YOU TELL OTHERS THAT I'M A NICE PERSON? YOU ASK MY FRIENDS ABOUT ME?????

HOW DARE YOU!!!

Can you give me back more than half a year of happiness that I failed to experience? Do you have answers to the hundreds of questions that I asked myself???

You humiliated me. You degraded my self esteem. You made me feel like the scum of the earth!!

YOU WANT TO KNOW HOW I AM DOING NOW THAT IVE GOTTEN MY LIFE TOGETHER??!!

9 comments:

X said...

Hmmm...deja vu.
truly.madly.deeply.in love wid sum1.
leaves.you.[walks out.of.your.life]
and then after 2 yers, wen youre actually doin well,
BANG!
do you love me?





gross.
cheerios!
nice blog

Absconding said...

I wasn't love with him! :D Was just a good friend....that's all! :D

Well..he didn't approach me! So it's all good! I'll survive! It was just an initial frustration.. that's all! :D

Thank you for stopping by! :D Have a great day!

rantravereflect/ jane said...

ya're ryte.. it doesnt make ne sense at all.. it's like the floods that hit a farmer's land after two years of drought n no crops..
i dunno how people can think tat way though!! prob guilt!!
watever!

N.V.Prashanth said...

If I were you, I wouldn't give it a damn! Once gone is forever!

But if you were gud frenz once....

The Maverick Blog said...

Something similar had happened to me.. Was not in contact with someone (or rather the other person was not in contact with me even after my continous effort for sometime to stay in touch) for almost a year and a half... But then suddenly something happened to that friend and there was a serious effort from both our sides to regain the momentum in our friendship and it worked!

So u never know wats in store for u.. So it'l be a good idea to just sit down and let it happen... May be, you guys might end up being Good Friends yet another time for life! U never want to miss the friendship of a real nice person, do u?

Absconding said...

@ rr

I don't know what he's feeling. I don't think that I want to know. I just want to be left alone. Apparently, it's too much to ask.. WHEN..you have mutual friends! OYE!

@ prashanth

Of course...I've let it go a couple of yrs ago. I have no intention of building up ANY KIND of relationship with the dude! I've changed and I've moved on. I don't think that I can see myself being a friend of him at this day and age. I've changed for good!

@ sunil

As I've said before, don't want to know anything about him. Don't care! So..hopefully..it'll be like that! I just wish that we didn't have mutual friends! You know how friends can be....! Wish she didn't tell me about him!!

m said...

Hmmmm...can understand how it feels...sometimes people are so painfully blunt that they don't seem to understand that something delicate once lost is lost for goodness sake!

It is all the more funny to hear the other person saying that they did that- i.e, they left u not even with proper goodbye and without any idea or information of what is happening and why-becoz they did not want to see u getting hurt!that's something that made my sense of logic go crazy and made me wanting to laugh out loud! but the piece of one's self that one looses in such situations can never be gained back...but life goes on!

So ignore that person and move on...if he works hard enough to be honest with the friendship again and if u feel that u can take it again then may be...give a chance...otherwise there is no need to bring in painful and tears into our only precious life!

Absconding said...

@ ela

Yeah dear..having no closure really does keep us hanging!! I guess... people don't understand that until they're on the OTHER side! Ah well..it was all forgotten! I just hate to be reminded of it, you know? But then again..that's life!!

When life throws lemons at you, you've gotta squeeze some juice outta it..put some salt and water and drink it up! I think I'll do just that...!!

Febin Joy Arappattu said...

enna patti koche??